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What do we need from our lovers?
In relationship, conflict or dissatisfaction usually arises from our differing needs. All individuals have differing needs; but in particular it has always been known that the masculine and the feminine have some major differences.
Good communication is abut finding ways to express our needs to each other, without making demands or creating blame. In essence, we all want the same thing: LOVE. But our pathways towards that common goal can differ.
The purpose of this Discussion Board is to invite men and women to share what their needs are from each other, so that we can all learn to understand our partners better.
My invitation is to encourage you to open topics that you wish to explore. Please state whether you are a man or a woman at the start of every entry (and yes, there are men who open in the feminine and women who open in the masculine, so if you feel this is you then you can state that also!)
Please try to come from a place of truth and vulnerability. See if you can express your feelings as your own (not as the fault of someone else). See if you can express your needs, not your wants. See if you can make a clear request, not a demand.
And perhaps we can all move towards a place of clearer understanding and deeper relating.
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